Hardships. That’s something which everyone faces in their life. We humans have tendency to compare ourselves with others, in which we always think that ”I think her/his life is more easier than mine, I’m facing too many problems than anybody else.” Well, in fact there’s no such thing, each and every person out there is facing some sort of hardship, it’s just that they have their own way of coping up with those which makes you think that their life might be easier or harder than yours. It also depends upon you that how you portray your life to people around you, if you stay strong and pass through all hardships easily they’re going to think your life’s sorted, and vice versa, because that was up to you, you were the one who portrayed your life in front of them in such a manner.
When facing some sort of hardship what you always need to remember is that you’re strong enough to get through this, and if someone can make it then it’s you because that’s the only way you can motivate yourself and push yourself to move ahead in your life. If you get stuck with your hardships and give up instead of fighting you’ll lose your will to live.
Another way to cope up is to spend time in what you like to do, may be you’d like to discuss your hardships with your best friend or your partner or anybody else, some hobbies which help you to relax and think calmly about the situation, these small things help you to a great extent in coping up with issues in your life, what we usually don’t remember is that ‘every problem comes up with a solution to it.’ It’s up to you that how you find the solution to it.
One important thing you can’t forget is that nobody’s life is easier or harder than you. When you compare yourselves to others you sort of getting jealous of their life, you keep thinking how easy their life is, but that is not something which they’ve told you, it’s something which you think of them, it’s the way you’ve made their image in your mind thinking that their life’s so much more sorted than mine is. Another piece of advice would be never show off that you’re facing so many hardships, we humans have a behavior that wants to gain sympathy from others, No don’t do that guy, unless and until you trust the person blindly don’t expect sympathy from them, now sharing your problems is different and asking for sympathy is different, you should always know the difference between both.
Sharing your problems with others and looking for advice or solutions from them is fine, but you must know what’s right and what’s wrong, the person in front of you, might or might not want to see you happy, if you’ll get manipulated by them, then, my friend, you’re already in the trap that the person has made to make you fall. Failures, mistakes are something which everyone faces, what you always have to remember is that you are learning something with each and every failure or mistakes. Being a human and not a machine you’ll make mistakes, but then again the way you come up with those is what matters, if you learn from your mistakes, you’ll never make those same mistakes again.
Always remember that destiny has plans for everyone, you’ll always end up with something good in your life, good times and bad times are always a part of life, you should always look back and remember the good things that you’ve gained, and most importantly remember the lessons that you’ve learnt throughout, being frustrated with life at a point in time is fine, that’s something which happens to everyone, you need a method or way to get that frustration out of you. You need to understand what’s good for you and who’s good for you, try to analyze the situations around you and know the world.
Take Your Time Analyse Situations, Find Solutions And Never Give Up.