You might have many a times, met people who are influential enough to be under the spotlight. By influential I don’t mean powerful. It’s just that their personality is too charming to be handled. In various social gatherings and networking events, they effortlessly impress others with their inexplicable charisma. You can be very popular among your colleagues and friends, but there is a very fine line between being famous and being the most charming person in the room.
The secret is their genuineness which creates incredible trust for them in people. You might be wondering how to bring this secret out in you. Well for this, the article would enlighten you about 7 tricks which can help you to be the most charismatic and charming person in the room.
1.PASS A FRIENDLY SMILE:
Passing a friendly, welcoming and warm smile is the first key to be utterly charming. Your one genuine smile can send off signals that you’re approachable and even that you are happy to meet the person and also you take interested in speaking to him or her.
2. VALUE THEIR TIME:
Whenever you are invited to some social party or you are to attend an important formal or informal meeting, make sure that you reach there on time. It shows that you value their time and would, in turn, help you earn brownie points. It also proves that you are an extremely punctual and reliable person.
3. DO NOT PRETEND, BE VULNERABLE:
Its natural, that if you are a human, you would be shy, nervous or scared. But if you are not, then it’s obvious that you’re pretending. If you act to be absolutely confident, then its just faking. The genuinely charming people don’t act. They accept their mistakes and insecurities and show their vulnerability, which makes them extremely relatable and likable.
4. BE A TRUE LISTENER:
When someone speaks to you, don’t just stare at them, listen to them genuinely. Also, not only listening is important but responding while listening is even more essential. Try to relate to yourself and keep suggesting the person with suggestions and solutions if needed. A charming person has great listening skills.
5. BE UPDATED:
It’s easy for you to fake your knowledge but its even easier for others to understand who is actually knowledgeable and who is just blabbering away. So keep yourself updated with what’s happening around you and only then attend events. This would definitely make you more charming.
6. KEEP AN OPEN MINDSET:
Bradberry rightly said, “Being open-minded makes you approachable and interesting to others”. When you attend any event or party make sure that you leave your judge-mental attitude at home and you enter there with an open mind. Talk with everyone and try to mix up with them. No one likes to talk aboutthe one who has already formed opinions and is not ready to listen.
7. BE CONSISTENT CONSTANTLY:
Try to be as even keeled as possible. Don’t keep jumping all over the emotional map. Do not be like serious at one moment, chatty at another or emotional at some other. be consistent. You’re sure to be charming then.
Thus, it is all that takes to be seriously charming and genuinely appealing to all the people in a room.