First dates are always special yet nerve-wracking. Not only you are tensed about how to dress up and look your best, but also distressed regarding how to leave the best impression on your date. You might put your best foot forward but still, the special date can eventually be a mess. I am pretty sure that you might be confused regarding where were you wrong. If yes, then probably you are committing some mistakes unintentionally that is ruining your date. Come let’s glide upon the reasons so that you prevent yourself from doing those in future.
YOU ARE MORE INTERESTED IN YOUR PHONE:
The most annoying thing that you can indulge yourself in, while you are on your date, is being stuck with your phone- be it call or chat. Your date wants your full undivided attention and expects you to respect his/her wish. Also, it’s always a bad habit to be physically present yet mentally absent while you’re with someone. So if you have a habit of fidgeting with your mobile, then next time remember to stop yourself!
YOU AREN’T READY TO LISTEN:
Often girls or sometimes even boys have a habit of blabbering away continuously. While this can be really entertaining, fun and attractive till a certain point, but after some time, it’s really annoying, if you keep speaking non-stop and isn’t ready to listen to your date.
YOU ARE TOO SHY TO OPEN UP:
While talking too much can be annoying, even the case of another way round can be maddening too. The person in front of you wants to know you. But if you are too shy or nervous to open up, it’s a signal that you aren’t interested to talk and can lead to that person being demotivated to take interest in you!
YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR PAST LOVE LIFE:
Yes, your date wants you to be honest, but not too much regarding your past relationships and love life. They really don’t want to hear regarding what went wrong. They are not interested to hear about your ex. Even if they do ask a question, then you should just keep your answer light and short, because if you keep rattling about it then it would send out a red flag. You obviously don’t want them to think that you are still stuck on your ex, and therefore it’s totally up to you to show them that you truly aren’t.
YOU ARE NAGGING:
A great thumb rule for all conversations is not being really pushy, needy or aggressive regarding the things you want to know about him/her. Be subtle in your approach. If it seems that the person is reluctant to answer, don’t force, just be calm, respect the person’s decision and move forward in your conversation.
So, next time prevent yourselves from committing the above mistakes to make your date immensely special.